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Speaking the Truth Pt. 2

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Speaking the Truth Pt. 2

Post by HannahMay on Tue Aug 12, 2014 3:44 am

In this post, I am going to be speaking on behalf of Beary and myself. Recently (today to be exact), Beary and I were chat banned on this forum, Bearville Boulevard. This isn't seen as a problem to either of us because honestly, we are used to it. We are used to being treated in this way because of a certain "reputation" we have. This "reputation" started back when we had a falling out with some old friends. And of course, news spread fast and we instantly became the most hated people on Bearville. This brings me to my main point of this post --- gossip. Just like any rumour, it broadens, reaching many people. People then begin to have their own views on the rumour, and begin to assume things that are most likely NOT true. This has been happening to Beary and I since early this year. We used to be bothered by it, but now, we are just so daamn used to it. It is absolutely ridiculous how much hate we receive. Okay, this is going to sound cheesy, but for real, you don't know our story or anything for that matter, so stop hating and stop believing everything you hear. I don't know about you, but I believe that Beary and I are absolutely wonderful people and we know how to have a great time. If we were ever to offend you, we are sorry. We truly are. But just because we had a fight with some old friends, it doesn't make it OK to believe everything you hear. Because of this so called "reputation", people see us as biitchess. We like to make sarcastic jokes. Is that so wrong? Yes, I understand that it is hard to understand when someone is being sarcastic online, but honestly, why can't you all just chill or ignore us? What we say is never directed to a particular person. Being rude is not our intent, so please stop believing so. 
Now, some may say that we are inappropiate. In all honesty, I can somewhat agree with that. But ask yourself this, does it really bother you THAT much that you have to make a scene about it? Does what we say really affect you? Like mentioned before, nothing we say is to hurt the feelings of another.
Be our friend or don't be our friend, we don't really care either way. Just please, all we ask is that you stop getting this bad vibe from us, as we are just trying our best and just trying to have some fun on a computer game. Stop believing what you hear, because more than half of it IS NOT true. Maybe next time you want to make a judgment, try getting to know us first. 
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Re: Speaking the Truth Pt. 2

Post by HannahMay on Tue Aug 12, 2014 3:49 am

I ask that you please not lock this until it has been seen by the majority of people on this forum. The post above is 100% what I believe and I want others to know how I feel. Thank you.
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Re: Speaking the Truth Pt. 2

Post by VanessaVeryBeary8 on Tue Aug 12, 2014 4:02 am

This was very well said. I also ask this post not be locked, as mine was, so that we can get our point across to the people who just don't seem to understand what we have been trying to say. Thank you for your time.
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Re: Speaking the Truth Pt. 2

Post by Catty♡ on Tue Aug 12, 2014 7:24 am

Wow that's not good. Sorry that's happening
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Re: Speaking the Truth Pt. 2

Post by Mark on Tue Aug 12, 2014 7:52 am

I would say that making sarcastic jokes can tear people apart....  Even if you guys are just joking around, those kind of jokes are not really good or nice.  I want to warn you guys about being like that.  Last time I saw some of my friends doing that, the same kind of thing happened but they became sour against each other.  Even though this is happening, you guys can also talk to us with kindness.  I never knew a thing about your scene or anything.  This is honestly the first time I heard it.  All I ask is that you talk to everyone with kindness and respect no matter how hard it is.  When you do that, it shows you're the better person.  Please remove the language from your post.
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Post by King K on Tue Aug 12, 2014 8:28 am

I have no idea what's been going on but I hope this gets resolved.
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Re: Speaking the Truth Pt. 2

Post by Malum on Tue Aug 12, 2014 10:10 am

I am not aware of anyone talking badly about you on here nor did I, myself, know that you had some form of a "reputation". If any of the admins or staff saw someone talking badly about you, they would be warned straight away to stop.  Everyone on here respects you for the people you are and I get you want to be fun - so do we. I don't believe that you're bad people and no, I do not judge someone based on the rumours I hear/see either... Jokes can hurt though and some of the things you say can be sometimes misinterpreted. Just be careful with what you say as you don't really want to offend someone by mistake. Sometimes people can mistakenly judge by first impressions.. I guess? I don't really know you though but I would like the chance to. You seem like pleasant people but while you are on here, you must follow our rules whether you like it or not [for the wellbeing and safety of the site...]. There is only so far you can take inappropriate content and sarcastic jokes. We're a site that is privileged in allowing you that form of freedom, unlike many other forums. All we ask is that you don't take for granted some of the privileges you have on here and respect our rules. This forum is welcoming, and I know you may feel shunned by other forums/sites..But I really don't want you to feel like that on here..

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Re: Speaking the Truth Pt. 2

Post by Guest on Tue Aug 12, 2014 10:13 am

Anika. wrote:I am not aware of anyone talking badly about you on here nor did I, myself, know that you had some form of a "reputation". If any of the admins or staff saw someone talking badly about you, they would be warned straight away to stop.  Everyone on here respects you for the people you are and I get you want to be fun - so do we. I don't believe that you're bad people and no, I do not judge someone based on the rumours I hear/see either... Jokes can hurt though and some of the things you say can be sometimes misinterpreted. Just be careful with what you say as you don't really want to offend someone by mistake. Sometimes people can mistakenly judge by first impressions.. I guess? I don't really know you though but I would like the chance to. You seem like pleasant people but while you are on here, you must follow our rules whether you like it or not [for the wellbeing and safety of the site...]. There is only so far you can take inappropriate content and sarcastic jokes. We're a site that is privileged in allowing you that form of freedom, unlike many other forums. All we ask is that you don't take for granted some of the privileges you have on here and respect our rules. This forum is welcoming, and I know you may feel shunned by other forums/sites..But I really don't want you to feel like that on here..

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Re: Speaking the Truth Pt. 2

Post by Hazza on Tue Aug 12, 2014 12:47 pm

What Anika said ^

But I just want to add that it's not okay to say sarcastic jokes because it can hurt/offend people. You may have been trying to have fun, but that fun still needs to be followed by rules. We have rules, and there's freedom, but still keep the rules in mind. I never heard about what happened to you guys or about your reputation, it would be the first time hearing about it. I would like to get to know you both as you seem to be wonderful people, but while you're on here the rules need to be followed.

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Re: Speaking the Truth Pt. 2

Post by Guest on Tue Aug 12, 2014 1:56 pm

Eleanor wrote:I have no idea what's been going on but I hope this gets resolved.

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Post by ETRD on Tue Aug 12, 2014 3:11 pm

Aria❥ wrote:What Anika said ^

But I just want to add that it's not okay to say sarcastic jokes because it can hurt/offend people. You may have been trying to have fun, but that fun still needs to be followed by rules. We have rules, and there's freedom, but still keep the rules in mind. I never heard about what happened to you guys or about your reputation, it would be the first time hearing about it. I would like to get to know you both as you seem to be wonderful people, but while you're on here the rules need to be followed.
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Re: Speaking the Truth Pt. 2

Post by Pale on Tue Aug 12, 2014 4:12 pm

There's a fine line between joking and hurting feelings; I have no idea who you two are but I wish for the best.
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Re: Speaking the Truth Pt. 2

Post by Maddy on Tue Aug 12, 2014 6:23 pm

Exactly what Eleanor said Razz
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Re: Speaking the Truth Pt. 2

Post by Hazza on Mon Sep 01, 2014 3:27 pm

Locked.

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